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Media Q&A
Tell me about yourself. What do you do?
My name is Joseph Law, and I’m the CEO of a social organization called
Living Greatness and the author of a book by the same name. Here at Living
Greatness, we are dedicated to implementing strategies for creating an
extraordinary quality of life for individuals and organizations throughout
the world. Through our books, conferences and workshops, we offer
the most cutting-edge ideas, tools, and practical strategies for authentic
success and impactful growth.
What is the book about?
Living Greatness
is a book about happiness, success, and purposeful living. I have had the
privilege of interviewing some of the most inspiring people in the world.
Just to give you an idea of the great minds I’ve been able to tap into,
I’ve talked with Jack Canfield, the author of the mega world bestseller
Chicken Soup for the Soul; Howard Cutler, who wrote The Art of
Happiness; and Edward de Bono, the world’s leading expert on how to
harness the power of lateral thinking – finding solutions to problems
through a creative approach.
Living Greatness conveys the key attribute to living a successful life:
having a holistic, balanced approach to life as evidenced by the choices
you make on a daily basis. Some of the topics discussed in the book are
discovering the purpose of life; finding and increasing personal
happiness; developing an effective mind through meditation; striking a
balance between work and leisure; goal setting and time management;
improving communication skills; overcoming life’s challenges and action
steps; and tools and strategies for implementing your goals.
Why did you choose to write this book? How did you become an author?
For over a decade, I was looking for answers to many of life’s questions,
the same questions that all of humanity struggles to understand: What is
the purpose of my life? How do I create more meaning and happiness in my
life and in the lives of others? To find the answers I needed, I read many
books, immersing myself in ancient writings to gain the wisdom and
knowledge contained within. Through this process I found peace, meaning
and purpose in my life.
When I was in my twenties, I became the divisional general manager of a
financial company that has turned over a billion dollars in sales. Even
though I had achieved success in the eyes of the world and had attained
what I thought I wanted in life, I wasn’t happy, and the meaningful life I
was searching for still eluded me.
A soul-searching trip in India in 2007 inspired to write this book,
Living Greatness. I knew that I wanted to condense what I had learned
over the last 10 years by interviewing some of the world’s leading minds
and experts on finding peace, happiness, and true success. I chose the
contributors carefully, knowing that I wanted only those who had once
struggled, but had found happiness and purpose in their lives. I also
wanted them to be well known to the world but approachable enough to speak
to readers on a personal level.
How has your life changed as a result?
One of the biggest changes I’ve experienced is the newfound sense of inner
peace, purpose, and happiness in my life. I wake up each day with
anticipation that it’s going to be another good day filled with purpose
instead of a day that just slips through the fingers like sand while
pursuing life aimlessly. Rather than approaching life by wondering What
is in it for me? I think about what I can give to others. It makes
life a whole lot easier, and it is the effortless way toward finding true
contentment.
As a result of these changes, I’m now pursuing something I’m passionate
about rather than going through life robotically. I left the corporate
world to give up the false sense of security, financial and otherwise, and
to shun the emphasis on position and power that once gave me an illusory
and temporary sense of achievement.
What is Living Greatness?
Living Greatness is about living a life with happiness and meaning. This
does not necessarily mean that we will live like other great men and women
in history, nor does it mean that we will make a huge impact on society.
Rather, it means living an ordinary life in an extraordinary way. It
doesn’t matter whether you are the CEO of the largest corporation or a
struggling single mother raising a family on your own. We are all the
same. Our society tends to define success in terms of fame, money, or
status. I think true success is inner happiness, living with purpose while
making a difference and a contribution to the lives of other people.
What are your top five tips for living a great life?
1)
Understand that living a life with happiness and meaning is possible
2)
Define what happiness means to you
3)
Envision what you want in life, not what you don’t want
4)
Know the difference between what can be changed and what cannot be
5)
Take action, beginning with baby steps, to work towards the attainment of
your desired outcome
There are many self-help books in the market today. Why is this book
different and unique?
Yes, there are many good books out there,
but I think there are never enough because different books speak in unique
and specific ways to different people.
I think the unique quality of Living Greatness is its diversity of
views presented by a range of experts. Each one of us is uniquely
different, and we all learn in different ways. There is no
one-size-fits-all approach to life.
Secondly, I believe what people need today is not another book on
theories, but a book that helps them learn from the experience of others
who have gone through the same challenges they’re facing and have found
happiness and meaning in their lives.
Lastly, most people are “time poor” these days, meaning they literally do
not have the time to trudge through a book that is heavy with theorizing
and pontificating. Living Greatness stands apart from the rest
because it is filled with practical tools and strategies, broken down into
short essays and writings by a variety of contributors, that will help
readers make immediate changes in their lives.
How can people benefit from reading the book Living Greatness?
I’m hoping to enlarge the understanding
people have of themselves and what they are capable of achieving in their
lifetimes. They will have an expanded awareness of life and know what is
possible by learning from the experiences of other people. Hope is the
fuel that drives all action.
To live a life with happiness and purpose, it may not be necessary to make
big changes. It may simply involve a change in the way you look at things,
a shift in your attitude, or a fresh approach to dealing with the
challenges of life. Readers will be equipped with practical tools and
strategies to start making these changes, whether in their work, family or
life.
What are the common characteristics of the contributing authors in your
book, and what can we learn from them?
I think what is consistent among them is their passion for life. They all
have a positive and enthusiastic attitude despite the challenges they have
faced in life.
Their focus is not so much on having a job or building a career; instead,
there is a purpose, a mission, a calling driving them to greater heights
in life. They are obviously very talented people, but they are not better
than you and I, simply because we all have untapped potential. The
difference is that these men and women have discovered what they are
passionate about in life, and they have learned how to apply their skills
and knowledge in way that not only benefits themselves, but benefits other
people in the process as well. In an extract from Living Greatness,
as Jack Canfield states,”I think genuine success comes from discovering
what you love to do and finding a way to do it so that it serves yourself
and others at the same time.”
Tell me about the various contributors in your book. What can the reader
learn from them?
Living Greatness is comprised of a broad council of experts. Among them are a
bestselling author, psychiatrist, philosopher, happiness expert, quantum
physicist, billionaire business coach, high achievement expert,
professional life coach, strategist, meditation teacher, global peace
ambassador, and a leading international thinker. From this one book,
readers can learn from the insights and hard earned experience of these
experts. Here is a list of some of the most well known contributors:
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Bill Bartmann – a billionaire who was at one time wealthier than Rupert
Murdoch. He lost his business empire, and then found meaning in life
again.
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Dr Edward de Bono – the world’s foremost thinker, and the most sought
after speaker by major corporations around the world, on how to think and
be more effective in today’s world.
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Jack Canfield – a once struggling high school teacher who went on to write
the world-renowned book Chicken Soup for the Soul, which has
inspired millions of people worldwide.
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Marci Schmoff – one of the world’s leading authorities on the topic of
happiness, condensing decades of research into simple, practical lessons
useful for today’s world.
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Mingyur Rinpoche – a world renowned meditation master whose brain was
tested by science to produce extraordinary calmness under the most extreme
circumstances. He will show you how to meditate effortlessly even if it
seems you have no spare time in your life for doing so.
How will reading the book solve my practical problems?
You will see life’s challenges in a new way, in a new light. Living
Greatness will give you the renewed hope, strength, insights, and
expertise you need to change your life. Understanding the essence of life
is very important, and you will begin to see that life is a journey and
not a destination. You will come to see that the challenges and lessons of
life are nothing but tools to make you a better, stronger, and wiser
person. This is captured very well in the saying, “Wish not that life were
easier – wish that you were better.”
It is important to note that you will not change your life overnight, but
you’ll be living your life with progressively more fulfillment, happiness,
and purpose when you set your mind toward achieving that change.
What are some of the biggest challenges you
have faced, and how did you overcome them?
There have been many. One was giving up the position and salary I had
attained in the corporate world in order to pursue an entirely different
path in my life. This meant stepping out of my comfort zone, which was
frightening at first because, as it is with many of us, my sense of
identity was attached to my position and income.
I’ve learned that everything is based on one’s perception of it, and how
you look at situations and events in life makes all the difference in how
your perceive your life. I embrace this as an opportunity now, to pursue
something I truly enjoy while making a difference in the lives of others.
I love Fred Alan Wolf’s passage from the book: “I
see life as a kind of gigantic wave that we either learn to surf upon or
get pushed along by.”
Who is the most influential person in your life?
There is no one person but a combination.
Different people inspire me in different ways: to name a few, Oprah
Winfrey, Nelson Mandela, Bill Gates, Richard Branson, Mahatma Gandhi,
Dalai Lama, Socrates, Jesus, Lao Tzu and Buddha.
What are your favorite quotes?
“Be the change you want to see in the
world.” ~ Mahatma Gandhi
“I’m only a little pencil in the hands of
God.” ~ Mother Teresa
Based on the
teachings in the book, what are five things anyone can do immediately,
starting today, to improve their quality of life?
1) Understand that it is possible
– The concept of Living Greatness is about
how one’s life is lived, not how much money, fame or status one achieves,
which is how modern society defines greatness. Readers will be inspired to
know that living a great life is their birthright, and it is possible
regardless of their background. It is about inner happiness and living
with purpose. To discover your purpose, follow the advice of Jack Canfield
by exploring three areas: 1) What do you love to do? 2) What makes you
happy? 3) What comes easy to you?
2)
Create a vision - You need to look at life holistically on every
level: your health, finances, career, relationships, and spirituality.
Write down and envision what you want for each area and what success means
to you in each area. What are your 10, 5, 3, and 1-year goals? Here is
some great advice from Siimon Reynolds: “How big should your goals be?
Well, they need to be grand enough to excite you, yet realistic enough
that you believe you can reach them. I like Brian Tracy’s rule of thumb:
you should feel as though you have a 50% chance of reaching your goal.”
3)
Believe and feel – To set the right frame of mind, be grateful for
what you have right now instead of fretting over what you don’t have (see
the glass as half-full and not half empty). Next, visualize and see the
new you. How would you think, feel, and act if you are already successful?
This is a paradigm shift for most people, and as Edward de Bono said,
“Perception is real even when it is not reality. We react to our
perceptions of reality, not to reality itself. Perception controls
emotions and emotions control behavior.”
4) Set up a roadmap – Devise your strategies for getting there, as
well as how much time, resources and assistance you will need. Billionaire
business coach Bill Bartmann has said that every successful business has a
written business plan, and this applies to your life as well. Having a
life plan serves as a roadmap that shows you how you can get there
(meaning, accomplishing your goals). It doesn’t mean that you are fixated
on the plan. Over the course of time, you will need to revise and refine
the plan as you deal with the ever-changing nature of external situations.
5) Take action – Do three things today that will help you create
the future you long for. Just take baby steps at first, then utilize the
power of momentum to your advantage to keep you going along, taking bigger
and more effective strides as you go. As the wise teacher Lao Tzu
said, “A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single
step.” And remember, life is a process, not a destination…the journey is
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